Make writing a thank-you note a special experience so that it becomes a lifelong habit for your child. Let your child know ahead of time when you will be writing notes and have them prepare by thinking of special things for each guest.

When writing your notes, keep them simple but personal -- make sure to thank the guest for their gift and include an anecdote or something personal that happened at the party. This is especially important if using a pre-made card. You want each guest to feel not only thanked but also special.